tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19927271.post113931731715724567..comments2023-10-31T11:30:14.024+00:00Comments on That Friday Feeling!: Baby RaceCurly Khttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17429084955670398882noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19927271.post-1139827023390616282006-02-13T10:37:00.000+00:002006-02-13T10:37:00.000+00:00Doris, I know what you exactly what you are saying...Doris, I know what you exactly what you are saying and I appreciate that it can be difficult if you begin a new relationship with someone who wants their own children etc. <BR/><BR/>I did actually think long and hard before I put that comment in, as I didn't want to offend anyone. But I decided to leave it in because I do believe that there are people out there who are being irresponsible. I think that it's incredibly messy having say five children who are only half brothers and sisters, all with different fathers.<BR/><BR/>Sorry if my opinion offends you, I really don't mean to but I'd be lying if I said anything different.Curly Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17429084955670398882noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19927271.post-1139817121526560512006-02-13T07:52:00.000+00:002006-02-13T07:52:00.000+00:00I never thought I'd have kids by different fathers...I never thought I'd have kids by different fathers and then I found I had 2 and then meeting Mr Doris I realised if we had one then I'd have 3 kids by different fathers..... and what if it didn't work out with him then I'd be just like these mothers who end up with 5. I've known one or two myself and they had the best of intentions when they started out.<BR/><BR/>But Mr Doris was happy not to go through the baby stage and to be dad to the existing kids.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13441809988487585009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19927271.post-1139501118792686032006-02-09T16:05:00.000+00:002006-02-09T16:05:00.000+00:00Isn't always funny how things work out? Maybe if ...Isn't always funny how things work out? Maybe if I'd had an accident along the way things would have been very different (but of course I couldn't have had; I keep telling my mother that I am her only virgin daughter because there is no proof to the contrary!!!!)<BR/><BR/>There never is an easy way in life. I have a number of friends who were in your situation and are now settled as well, its great. I really admire anyone raising kids on their own (except for those women who just go endlessly from man to man and have a baby with each of them - one I know off has 5 children by different fathers - like use contraception for God's sake!)Curly Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17429084955670398882noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19927271.post-1139344766009137972006-02-07T20:39:00.000+00:002006-02-07T20:39:00.000+00:00I didn't see the programme... I can see that it wo...I didn't see the programme... I can see that it would be depressing. I'm ten years older than you and acquired my two as "accidents" along the way. No way were they intentional and I had them both by the time I was 32 and as a single parent. I reckon it is easier when you have always been a single parent rather being part of a relationship that then splits - but that doesn't have to be the case. So I want to say is that it is not so bad doing it on your own. Of course the ideal of a partnership is out there.<BR/><BR/>When my kids were 8 and 4 I met my Mr Doris and he has well and truly become "Dad". He is a better one than one of the natural birth fathers ever was.<BR/><BR/>I have friends who were waiting for Mr Right and the right situation. One has just found him and she is 45. They are not sure what the situation is regarding kids. Another is still waiting and wanting. Another found out her Mr Right and then after a number of years just before she was 40 decided to try for a child to find out she had already gone through an abnormally early menopause. It sounds like the programme you watched!<BR/><BR/>Maybe I feel justified now for being a bit of a "slapper" and getting around! <BR/><BR/>It is such a difficult situation. And yes, I know what you mean... they always say women are putting career first when actually there just are not enough decent men.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13441809988487585009noreply@blogger.com